Category: On The Bricks

There are few dreams that I recall having … and even fewer nightmares. Pretty much all of them have snakes in them. And they often happen after seeing or reading about snakes. Seems there is a very deep – seated fear in me of those slithering reptiles.
Recently my father gave me his latest Smithsonian magazine to read, which I enjoy. Lots of great articles in those bi – monthly magazines.
The July – August issue had the very lengthy story entitled “Bounty Hunters and Biologists Wade Deep into the Everglades to Wrestle with the Invasion of Giant Pythons Threatening Florida’s Wetlands.” Holy Toledo, Batman, reading that article may have scarred me for life.
The article had statements such as, “Given the python’s survival advantages, they will never be eliminated.” Just what I wanted to hear.
It also told us, “No one knows how many pythons are out there now. Estimates run from 10,000 to perhaps hundred of thousands. A problem with trying to count them is that they’re what scientists call ‘cryptic’ – hard to detect. Their black – brown – tan camouflage fits perfectly in the marsh, as well as in the higher sandy ground that makes up another part of their range. They are good swimmers and can stay underwater for half an hour or more.” Oh, Lord help us.
Some of the snake hunters use their feet in the water to search for the pythons. That is a nightmare in itself.
Here’s another quote to take from the article, “Twelve thousand five hundred pounds of Burmese pythons have come through that door (speaking of the lab) in the last six years. And we caught all of them within 55 square miles around Naples. The Everglades ecosystem is about 5,000 square miles. Consider that fact when you’re wondering how many pythons might be in the Everglades.” Oh, I’m considering … lots of things.
In a part of the story, they describe the how one python female had 43 eggs in her. Yep, that’s really scary. Every female has over 40 babies a year?
Really want me to continue sharing?
How about, “Now that the snakes have devastated the population of smaller animals, they appear to be moving to larger ones. … pictures he had taken last year of a python in the process of swallowing a fawn. The python weighed 31 pounds, the fawn weighed 35.” Yikes.
“…I heard some of Donna’s snake – hunting stores – about the python she caught that, when she cut it open, had a domestic cat in its stomach, and about the huge python that came at her with fangs bared and she shot it and it got away … and about the one she caught and then let go of its tail, so she could answer her phone, and in that moment the snake slipped its tail around her neck and started squeezing and would have strangled her if the friend who was riding with her hadn’t pried it off.” Oh, my heavens.
And I haven’t even told you about the photos in the article.
Scarred. I will never be the same.
Nor will I ever visit the Florida Everglades. Ever.
Enjoyed sharing with you today.
Enjoy your summer and I’ll see you on the bricks!

Summer is the time for class reunions. And some reunions have some real surprises for us.
You get me?
Harvey Deutschendorf wrote, “For much of the 20th century, we assumed the person who was the smartest, or had the highest IQ, would be the most likely to succeed. That’s what everyone thought when I went to school. However, after attending our high school reunions, many of us realized this wasn’t always the case.
“Of course, having a high IQ – receiving a high score on an intelligence test – is still a good thing. But social scientists now confirm that strong social skills are a key element to success and that humans are born with the potential for EI (emotional intelligence). This inborn capacity may be damaged or highly developed, depending on a person’s life circumstances and experiences. However, the wonderful thing about EI is that with work and awareness, we can rebuild or enhance EI regardless of our backgrounds.
“In 1990, two American professors, Peter Salovey and John Mayer, coined the term “emotional intelligence” to identify a type of self – awareness they believed had greater influence on human behavior and life outcomes than pure brain power.
“In 1995, a science journalist Daniel Goleman expanded on the concept in his seminal work, Emotional Intelligence: Why it Can Matter More than IQ. The book was a fixture on bestseller lists for nearly two years and was translated into 40 languages. Among other insights, Goleman notes three levels of EI: (1) recognizing the emotions of others; (2) feeling what others feel; and (3) understanding others’ motivations and emotions so well that a respectful, trusting connection develops.
“… Goleman’s book says in essence ‘your intelligence can come to naught when emotions hold sway.’
“… Harvard recently released results from a 75 – year study, looking for the single most important and reliable predictor of happiness. The answer? Our connections with others ….”
Deutschendorf proceeds to explain in this article in the July 2019 Toastmaster magazine, the importance for EI of Listening; be fully present, put yourself in their shoes, let the speaker know you understood, practice active listening, and curate curiosity.
Lofty personal goals in that short paragraph, but ones that make sense.
You get me?
One thing that is true, in my opinion, is that I can always improve myself. Lots of room for that! And life is more interesting when we have challenges.
Hope your days are filled with happiness and fun challenges to meet.
See you on the bricks.

You ever have those days that you just wake up and you aren’t really fit company for anyone? Nothing has gone wrong out of the norm, you aren’t sick, you just need to be away from people because you’re not feeling very friendly. Those days happen and then you read something like this on Facebook:
“I went to the Walmart today, and I was there for literally five minutes. When I came out, there was a state trooper writing a parking ticket for being parked in a handicap spot.
“So, I went up to him and said, ‘Come on, buddy, how about giving a guy a break?’ He ignored me and continued writing the ticket. So, I called him a pencil-necked cop. He glared at me and started writing another ticket for worn tires!
So, I then asked him if his psychiatrist makes him lie face down on the couch cause he’s so ugly.
“He finished the second ticket and put it on the windshield with the first. Then he started writing a third ticket. This went on until he had placed five tickets on the windshield … the more I insulted him, the more tickets he wrote.
“I didn’t care. My car was parked around the corner.”
How in the world can you have a frown on your face after reading something like that?
Here’s one I read in Reader’s Digest: “My boss told me to have a good day. So, I went home.”
That’s what I’m talking about … funny.
Here’s another recent read that sums it up pretty well, “Some people could be given an entire field of roses and only see the thorns in it. Others could be given a single weed and only see the wildflower in it. Perception is a key component to gratitude. And gratitude is a key component to joy.”
My life is blessed by the many friends and acquaintances I have with a great sense of humor and who share positive thoughts and ideas. For these folks I am grateful, and my life is blessed to no end. Smiles abound.
Share the smiles and gratitude and consider attending some of these community happenings:
The Children’s Back to School Health Fair is July 18 at the Texas County Activity Center from 4 to 7 pm. Lots of fun things, free hot dog meals, free back to school supplies and much more.
The City of Guymon Free Movie Night at Cross Park (behind the YMCA) is Sat., July 19, with the movie starting when the sun goes down. It’s a Luau Night and the movie is “Moana.” There are also food vendors and fun happening before the show.
Barn Quilt Door Sign and Punch creative project class is Fri., July 26 at 7:30 pm in the American Legion building. The cost is $40 per person and you take your beautiful art project home with you. The entire $40 is donated to Kid’s Inc. because the supplies and refreshments are paid for by Bank of the Panhandle and childcare is provided at the YMCA for 6 months to 12 – year – olds. That’s a heck of a deal … and it’s a great example of folks working together to make Guymon a great place to live and work.
Don’t forget the Guymon Farmers Market is happening every Saturday morning in front of the Texas County Courthouse, starting at 8 am.
It’s a good place to be, in Guymon, Oklahoma.
See you on the bricks!

My recent road trip, the route was figured out online with the motels considered via google and then reservations made online. When in any of the towns, google was checked once again for local restaurants and their ratings were given careful consideration. When I was in the motel by myself and didn’t want to get out after one day, I even googled “restaurants with delivery, (town name and state)”. And then I hit the “call” button and ordered.

No place to stay or eat was given any consideration because it wasn’t on google.

Once we arrived in Myrtle Beach, the same method was used to find things to do like go to the Aquarium.

Then I get home and go to work, my mom brings a friend over who is visiting from Maryland. Yes, they did almost the same road trip and they looked on their cell phone to decide where they would stop.

My serious question to our local merchants is this: While these friends were here, if they were to look up on the phone great places to visit, to stay, to shop, or to eat … would your business come up? Would our favorite restaurants have reviews? We can all leave reviews.

This is an issue that Taos McIntyre as a transformer during his high school years had as a project. He looked up businesses (first were the Main Street ones that are more apt to draw someone traveling off the highway) and offered to help them get their information updated on Google. He would bring his laptop in to the store and he didn’t charge anything.

And said people said, “No, thank you.”

You don’t have to be computer savvy to update Google. Especially if Taos is helping you. Why would you not take the 30 to 45 minutes to possibly bring new customers in?

It’s a puzzlement to me.

And then I recall the various things that my kids want me to do with my phone, my banking, etc., and I just nod and smile and never plan on doing it. And it probably would be easier. And it probably would save time. And yet I don’t do it.

So, that just happens, I guess.

What else is happening?

On July 15 during the lunch hour the OSU Extension is holding a class on “Eating Healthy on a Budget.” Call 338-7300 to reserve a spot.

The Texas County Children’s Health Fair is happening on July 18 from 4-7 pm at the Activity Center.

The City sponsored summer movie at Cross Park happens when the sun goes down on July 19 behind the YMCA.

And on July 22 is another OSU Extension class, this one on “Tips for Losing Weight and Keeping it Off.” This one is also held during the lunch hour.

Hope your Fourth of July was wonderful and it’s my hope that you were able to watch the beautiful City Firework display. How fun was that?

See you on the bricks!

June was wonderful. A two – week vacation got me relaxed, had time to visit with some old friends and some family, and then as I drove those last miles home feeling thankful to be back. Then on Monday morning I woke up wanting to come to work and be productive. June made July looks so good … and so fun.

During the two weeks I drove to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. That’s a long way. Lots of road time to listen to my music and sing to it when I wanted, and time to have quiet when I wanted to rest my mind. The first day I drove across Oklahoma. The second day I drove across Arkansas. The third day I drove across Tennessee, which I had been looking forward to because I’ve never explored Tennessee.

That whole exploring Tennessee still wasn’t marked off my bucket list when I crossed the state line into North Carolina. Interstate 40 is not conducive to exploring. And there’s no looking at the scenery because there are so many blamed trees that you can’t see the scenery. But I had a drive back to remedy this poor performance, so just mark it up to experience rather than adventure.

Going through North Carolina and arriving in South Carolina, I had the absolute pleasure of spending my best friends 60th birthday with her. We’ve been best friends (there are four of us) since first grade and all of us attended Panhandle State together. Having some time with Nancy was worth every single mile.

The next day after a few more hours on the road, I picked up my daughter Lisa and her friend Lisa (we call her GoGo) in Charleston. There we had our first meal of the anticipated seafood diet at a wonderful restaurant in the middle of downtown Charleston. And we stayed in a boutique inn there a few blocks away. Oh, my, it was fabulous. Our room was two – story and had two bathrooms and three TVs. I could go on, but just say it was a good call to stay there.

Then we drove to Myrtle Beach, SC, where we watched son – in – law Keith’s last baseball game and they won big time. The coast had cooled down because it was cloud covered and the humidity was unbelievable. GoGo and Lisa went to the beach and I stayed in the hotel enjoying my quiet time. And then we enjoyed all three days there.

After dropping Keith and the Lisa’s off at the Charleston airport, my road trip west began. This time I traveled the smaller roads and I seemed to weave from South Carolina into Tennessee and Mississippi and back and forth between the last two. I might have even been in Alabama for a moment, or not far from it. My roads were slow and gorgeous. I drove through where the Civil War Battle of Shiloh took place and through the Appalachian Mountains. At one point there was a mower going in front of my lane of traffic and since we couldn’t pass, it was at times stand still on the road. Nobody seemed to be nervous or cranky. We could see a beautiful and big river flowing below over the rocks and we were in the shade of the mountain. So, I rolled down my window and had that cool breeze and listened to the river. It was a highlight.

Eventually I arrived in Chattanooga and then on into Fayetteville, fulfilling my Tennessee adventure. In Memphis, the evening was great because I had supper with another old friend. It wasn’t his birthday, but we celebrated anyway. Lots of laughing and another highlight in Tennessee.

Soon I was traveling across Arkansas again and into Oklahoma, where the trees thinned out and the are thinned out. I could see better and breathe better. My heart (and lungs) were happy when I finally got home on Friday night.

Saturday was great because I could get the car cleaned out, the laundry done, sleep in my own bed. And on Sunday at church and for lunch was with Mama, supper with my daughter Missy and her family. Still need to catch up with work, with Papa, and with Justin … but there is time.

They’re all doing well, and life is good.

Hoping that your June was filled with highlights, too.

Now it’s time to make some Main Street Guymon highlights … like the Farmers Market on Saturday! I love the Farmers Market!

See you on the bricks!

This morning at 3:30, I woke up. I had fallen asleep while reading my book, so I picked my book back up and continued reading. Good book. Before long, the book got sad and I there I was crying and pretty soon my nose was running and then I could hardly breath.

Getting up, I hurried to the bathroom to blow my nose and I took a Kleenex back to bed with me and used it on my nose continually. Because the book only got sadder and I kept crying.

The character finally died and I cried more. Then the book was over. It was 6:00 in the morning, straight up. Time to get up and get ready for work.

Now it’s 9 am and pretty soon I’ll be in a meeting. I’m hoping my eyes are not still swollen and red. Go figure, I paid money for that book and spent m. any hours reading it. To make me cry and cry and cry.

We do some of the strangest things.

Maybe I should take the book and present about it at the Texas County Literary Society on June 20 at the Guymon Public Library. The meeting starts at 6 pm and it’s a time for readers to share their favorite book. So. if anyone wants to cry and cry, they can choose to read the book I present. Sounds like great fun, right? Crowds will rush to check out this book, I’m sure.

When you’re at the library, you might also see that the OSU Extension is holding Yoga for Kids, free at from 2-3 pm on June 14, 21, and 27. That sounds like fun. If I tried, it would probably make me cry, too.

There is a Summer movie shown behind the YMCA on June 15 at Sundown. The movie is “Spider Man: Into the Spider-Verse.” Keep an eye out, there may be some other games and maybe a food truck, too.

OPSU Alumni are getting together for a Summer Night Out at the Pub on the Bricks from 6 – 9 pm on June 20. Great time to get together, all alumni, all ages. Come in to 5th and Ellison and come for however long you want to stay. Find out some of the new happenings on campus.

Maybe we’ll be celebrating a three-pete Collegiate National Finals Rodeo Championship!

And golfers, be sure to take part in the Guymon Chamber Golf Tournament on June 22.

Lots of good things going on in Guymon. Be a part. We’d love to see you there.

See you on the bricks!

So often our English language and the way we put words together can be confusing … and, yet, entertaining.

Give a little gander to these commonly used word phrases:

• Act naturally;
• Found missing;
• Resident alien;
• Advanced BASIC;
• Genuine imitation;
• Airline food;
• Good grief;
• Same difference;
• Almost exactly;
• Government organization;
• Sanitary landfill;
• Alone together;
• Legally drunk;
• Silent scream;
• Living dead;
• Small crowd;
• Business ethics;
• Soft rock;
• Butt head;
• New classic;
• Sweet sorrow;
• Childproof;
• Synthetic natural gas;
• Passive aggression;
• Taped live;
• Clearly misunderstood;
• Peace force;
• Temporary tax increase;
• Plastic glasses;
• Terribly pleased;
• Political science;
• Tight slacks;
• Definite maybe;
• Pretty ugly;
• Twelve-ounce pound cake;
• Diet ice cream;
• Working vacation;
• Exact estimate; and
• Microsoft Works

Interesting, aren’t they? Some of those gave me a real chuckle, so I had to share them!

Summer is upon us and I came across this Lemonade recipe that really looks delicious. Another something that I thought needed sharing.

The lady who sent the recipe in, wrote, “My sister and I spent a week every summer with our Aunt Frances, who always had this thirst – quenching lemonade in a stoneware crock in the refrigerator. It makes a refreshing drink on a hot day.”

• 5 lemons
• 5 limes
• 5 oranges
• 3 qt. water
• 1.5 cups sugar

Squeeze the juice from 4 of the lemons, limes, and oranges; pour into a gallon container. Thinly slice the remaining fruit and set aside for garnish. Add water and sugar to the juice; mix well. Store in the refrigerator. Serve over ice with fruit slices.

Summer food is fun food. And don’t forget the Guymon Farmer’s Market will be starting up on the first Saturday morning in July and run every Saturday in July, August, and September. Fresh vine ripened veggies will be for sale. There will also be fresh herbs and some fresh baked goods. It’s a great time. The markets open at 8 am and is done when the vendors sell out.

If you would like to sell your garden produce or home – made items, give me a call at 580-338-6246 or come by the office to get your packet with the market rules. We are lucky to have Linda Hill Crop Insurance as a sponsor for the market, paying the permit cost and all!

Hope to see you at Shop and Dine downtown!

See you on the bricks.

Have you ever taken a moment to write down the most important things you would like your children to know? I think it’s important to write them down because then they last longer than we do. True, it’s even more important to live them, but writing them down is important.

When I was asked to do this, it took some serious thinking time. And, honestly, I think that what is important at one time in our lives might not be what we choose a decade or two later. But, it’s all important.

Last October, the words I put down for my children, should they want to ever read them:

“I would like all of my children to understand how beautiful you are. You love easy, you work hard for those you love, you take time to see the beauty in others and around you. You don’t waste much time judging others, but you also have sense to not be blind to users.

“Keep your integrity and good reputation. That will hold you up in tough times. Stay honest. Be honest with yourself, be honest with others. Become a person you can like and don’t worry if others like you. We are on this earth for too short a time to worry about what others think about us.

“Be kind. Kind is never a bad choice.

“When someone doesn’t agree with you, don’t take it personal. They aren’t saying they don’t like you, they just don’t agree with you on an issue. Don’t try to change their mind, but have a quiet discussion. And I have learned that people don’t need to know your opinion most of the time, nor do they probably want it. And if you’re all about giving your opinion to the world, we need to question why. Because we know everything and want the world to follow us? Or that we as a person are defined by our opinion? I hope not.

“I struggle with this and yet, I know, most everyone is smarter than me at something and I know a friendship / relationship should be based on love, kindness, understanding, and acceptance … not on opinions. So, I need to shut up, right?”

Seven effective ways to make others feel important when you’re talking to them, according to author Roy T. Bennett, include: use their name; express sincere gratitude; do more listening than talking; talk more about them than about you; be authentically interested; be sincere in your praise; and show you care.

When I read this, I agreed, but then you have to wonder what do you do when you are talking to someone and you really don’t care? I think that’s when you just be quiet.

Hard for some of to do, this being quiet. But we can teach ourselves to do it.

The summer is getting seriously under way these days. Enjoy your summer and we at Main Street Guymon wish blessings to you all.

See you on the bricks!