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Survey – Part 3

Each year the four primary Main Street Guymon committees put together their Road Map for the upcoming year, listing each activity and program and the work plan for each. The work plans are then approved by the Board of Directors and sent to Oklahoma Main Street with our Annual Agreement.

This year the board decided to find out what programs the community found the most important and the most helpful. A survey was developed and sent out to Main Street members and volunteers and through the Main Street Guymon social media during March and April.

The survey had 24 questions with multiple choice answers. There were 149 people who took the less than five minutes to answer the questions. This is the third article in a series of five on what the surveys revealed on the opinions from the community.

The third most popular Main Street Guymon event or program according to the recent survey is the Main Street Guymon benches and flower – pots program.

Research shows that when someone has a place to sit comfortably, more time is spent in the stores, and, consequently, more sales are likely to be made. Whether it is the shopper sitting for a spell or the husband calmly sitting while the wife shops, the benches are a good retail investment. The black metal benches that are slowly appearing downtown and in some other spots around town are sometimes purchased by Main Street Guymon, some are bought in memory of a person, and others are purchased by a company and placed downtown.

The logo of the company that purchased the bench is generally the back cut out. And those that are memorial benches have a gold medallion with the name of the person memorialized.

“We like these benches because they are comfortable, sturdy, and look really good with the new light posts downtown,” explains Design Committee Chairman JuliAnn Graham. “We appreciate the City Parks Department for anchoring the benches into the sidewalk for us. They’ve been very helpful.”

The benches are ordered from the Oklahoma Department of Corrections and cost $492 to Main Street member businesses and $542 to non – members. Ninety – three percent of those who took the survey like the benches and flower program.

Another high on the list of appreciation with the community is the Main Street Transformers youth mentoring program. Each year, a maximum of ten freshmen or sophomores are accepted into the program. They meet one Saturday morning each month and have field trips, volunteering, and other activities that help them to learn more about themselves and their community. To be invited back into the program the following year, a Transformer is required to have a community project that they plan and implement themselves. The project is something that addresses an issue important to the Transformer and is helpful to the community.

“Taos McIntyre,” says Transformer sponsor and board chairman Kristine Scott, “is very good with computers and using technology and his project has been to help local businesses get a better position on the internet. He knows the importance of being in Google to gain business and he has, at no cost, taken his laptop into businesses the past three years and gotten them set up.”

What is easy for the young McIntyre isn’t always easy for the business owners and this is a benefit to them. So, McIntyre’s project falls within the priorities of Main Street Guymon and is a project that he feels strongly about and is good at doing.

“The problem we have with the Transformers,” explains Main Street Director Melyn Johnson, “is getting the word out to the kids and getting applications. Then as the students get older and more involved in school activities, jobs, and sports, it can be difficult for them to find time to meet. We always stress that school and families take precedence over Transformers and we know that is right, but it makes it hard on scheduling at times.”

Day field trips over the years have included Alabaster Caverns, Great Salt Plains, and the Citadel Art Museum.

For a time, Transformers was sponsored by Manny and Susan Barias and then by Seaboard, but at present there is no sponsor. On the survey, 80% like the program and 2% were not aware of it. Only 9% said they didn’t think it was important for a Main Street program.

“In my opinion, this is a program that we need to put a little more energy into,” says Johnson. “Working with the youth and helping them find their place in the community and in life is always crucial. We have given a small scholarship to the Transformers who have stayed with the program until they graduate and to continue. we really need to find another sponsor. One of the great parts is how involved the Transformers get in the Main Street events, become excellent volunteers for us.

“The Aggie Families program is one that has no cost other than time to continue. Through it our volunteer numbers continue to grow tremendously. Each time we weigh the programs we keep or start, it’s our goal for the partners and Main Street Guymon to benefit equally. The volunteer growth is the main benefit for us, but what it garners for Oklahoma Panhandle State University and its athletes is support and participation. The families find a new friend and often, as family, get into the games free of charge. And it’s fun for most everyone. It’s a win – win – win program and the family and athlete go into it giving as many hours as they’re willing. There’s no requirements to meet.”

The personal impact some of the players and families have made are amazing. The impact of the athlete’s assistance in the Main Street programs is breath taking. “When you have 25 to 80 college football players helping with the community clean – up,” laughs Johnson, “some serious work gets done. When you have the college baseball team painting the bathroom at the park, it’s done in a really short time. You don’t even need ladders!”

When you add 75 Aggie Families to the football stands, holding their posters and yelling for their Aggie, it generates enthusiasm and positive energy. Aggie Families are typically found for the athletes who live a long distance from home and do not have family able to be here for support. Aggie Families are only found for those who request to be in the program.

“In our Main Street trainings,” Johnson says, “the topic on how to get the local university population involved in the community is often discussed. Most students who are from out of town know where the local fast – food restaurants are and the local large discount store. They often don’t find the unique locally owned and operated small businesses. When they become a part of the Main Street program, they are often introduced to more of these and are introduced to local events that they would not have attended before.”

The OPSU baseball team has worked the Guymon Fiesta for several years as Main Street volunteers. There are a good number of Spanish speaking players on the team and this is a perfect match for them and for the event. They have fun and we have more than 20 volunteers working the entire day. The same team provided the servers for the award – winning Main Street Pangaea dinner.

The OPSU football players have been volunteers at Outback, at the Silent Auction, and other events and programs. And each time someone comes in as a Main Street Aggie Family, it builds the volunteer base for the organization as some of them become involved in other programs.

For those who completed the survey, 74% think the Aggie Family program is good and 3% are not fans of the program for Main Street Guymon.

One comment from the survey takers was, “Getting your knowledge, drive, and involvement exposed as much as possible to the youth and schools benefits not only our children, but the future of Guymon. More programs or experiences like Transformers would be great. Try and aim to reach diverse cultures at the same time. You are doing great. Keep it up.”

“The bottom line on Transformers and Aggie Families,” says Johnson, “is that the Main Street Guymon Board of Directors believe that if you want to be involved with the community and make a difference, it is important, if you can, to be a participant with the youth. They are the future of the community and, thus, part of our future. We need to do this while still remembering that our first priorities as a Main Street organization are the businesses and historical preservation. We can sometimes be more effective when partnering with organizations, like OPSU and the YMCA, who have youth as a top priority.”

The past six years, Main Street Guymon sponsored a mentoring program called Cassie’s Kids that matched mentors with junior high aged girls. The program was run by Cassi Jo Schriefer who recently moved away. Her two mentees that she enjoyed working with for the past six years are graduating from high school and she is moving, so this program was taken off of the strategic plan for 2019.

2019 Main Street Guymon Survey Results

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Survey – Part 2

Each year the four primary Main Street Guymon committees put together their Road Map for the upcoming year, listing each activity and program and the work plan for each. The work plans are then approved by the Board of Directors and sent to Oklahoma Main Street with our Annual Agreement.

This year the board decided to find out what programs the community found the most important and the most helpful. A survey was developed and sent out to Main Street members and volunteers and through the Main Street Guymon social media during March and April.

The survey had 24 questions with multiple choice answers. There were 149 people who took the less than five minutes to answer the questions. This is the second article in a series of five on what the surveys revealed on the opinions from the community.

The second most popular Main Street Guymon event or program according to the recent survey is the Main Street Guymon Facebook page.

The page, administered by Main Street Guymon Director, shares community events and member information that people might find interesting.

“It is a goal to not inundate someone with the same thing over and over because this will set people to hiding our page,” explains Director Melyn Johnson. “And we want to promote positive things because we really don’t want to perpetuate negative thoughts and issues. There is a good reason for this. We have 10,000 to 24,000 people engaging our posts every month. Facebook will show you each month which post has received the most attention. It is always a positive post, something that tells about someone doing well, or one of the veteran’s banners of a well – known person, something of this sort. Talking smack isn’t what we’re about.

“I admit,” says Johnson, “the information from our member businesses do get priority. I don’t apologize for that, because we support those who support us. If it weren’t for the membership dues from individuals and businesses, there wouldn’t be a Main Street Facebook page.”
At this time there are 4,751 Facebook likes on Main Street Guymon’s page and hitting 5,000 in 2019 might well happen.

One of the fun things to post is the announcement of the Main Street Guymon Vital Volunteer of the Month. Volunteers come from all walks of life, all ages, different cultural backgrounds, and yet they all have one thing in common – they love working to make Guymon a better place to live and work.

“The Vital Volunteer posts each month are always popular,” tells Johnson. “These are folks that usually don’t just help Main Street Guymon but do all sorts of other things in the community. So, they get a lot of attention when a post commending them, and their work, goes up.”
One person wrote in the comment section of the survey, “I love living among such community – based people. Thanks for all the programs and opportunities.”

Another said, “Keep up the good work. It helps businesses keep up with what is going on in Guymon.”

“More business owners need to be involved with Main Street,” said one person.

Main Street Guymon, with one full – time paid person, and the entirely volunteer staff, would love to have more members and ideas of ways to invite people to join. “It is always the decision of the business owner where they want to invest their money,” says Johnson. “And we don’t know what is going on in other people’s lives. So, we just pray blessings on all the businesses and appreciate those that are able and willing to invest the $200 a year to be a Main Street Guymon supporter.”

“Time is what always gets in the way,” says one board member. “It isn’t easy going and asking people to become members. We try to have positive activities for the town and businesses, hoping that people appreciate what we do and join to support the programs. But we admit we aren’t good at going door to door and asking people to join.”

There is often the misunderstanding that you must be a downtown business to be a member of Main Street Guymon. This is not the case. Many of the biggest supporters and sponsors are outside the “historical” downtown (Hwy 54 north to 12th Street, on Main, Ellison and Quinn Streets).

This misunderstanding is difficult to get across as can be seen with the survey comment, “Let other businesses in so you can grow.”

“We hope that we don’t appear to not let anyone in,” commented a Main Street Guymon board member. “We want to encourage participation from everyone in all that we do.”

2019 Main Street Guymon Survey Results

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Survey – Part 1

Each year the four primary Main Street Guymon committees put together their Road Map for the upcoming year, listing each activity and program and the work plan for each. The work plans are then approved by the Board of Directors and sent to Oklahoma Main Street with our Annual Agreement.

This year the board decided to find out what programs the community found the most important and the most helpful. A survey was developed and sent out to Main Street members and volunteers and through the Main Street Guymon Facebook page during March and April.

The survey had 24 questions with multiple choice answers. There were 149 people who took the less than five minutes to answer the questions. This is the first article in a series of five on what the surveys revealed on the opinions from the community.

The most popular program or event sponsored by Main Street Guymon, according to the answers on the survey, is the Community Clean – Up, with only one person not giving it a thumbs up. The one who didn’t give it a positive answer said they were not aware of the program.

The Community Clean – Ups take place in April and September each year and has for over 10 years. Main Street Guymon is one of the organizers of the event, but the true work comes from hundreds of volunteers through many different groups that pitch in and primarily do trash pick – up to make the town look better.

This is an image event and does not bring in any funds in to Main Street Guymon. Rather, it often costs Main Street when they feed some of the larger clean – up crews. The Main Street board of directors has always considered this a positive use of funds.

The Farmer’s Market came in with a 93% positive vote and only 1% negative. This popular event has been happening for over a dozen years and is an event that is also an image event. For many years Main Street Guymon has received a sponsorship from Linda Hill Crop Insurance that paid for the banners, the little bit of advertising and promotion in past years, and the permit required through the City of Guymon.

“I feel like Farmers Market could be bigger and those who do in – home cooking or baking should be able to have a booth again,” wrote one person on the survey. The Home Baking Act was passed, but the vendors at the market are still under the requirements of the food inspector at the Texas County Health Department.

The Farmer’s Market is a chance to buy farm or garden – fresh vegetables that have a chance to ripen on the vine. The Helm’s family has a huge selection to choose from, and Mary Long, who has been a member of the market since it began, is also considered a core of the market.

Outback is the third most popular Main Street Guymon event, according to the survey. This outdoor street event that takes place the Friday after Pioneer Days is the event around the pre – registration for Iron Thunder’s Five State Motorcycle Run. Main Street Guymon volunteers sell beef and pork burgers with beans and beverages for $5 while live music is happening on the street.

Outback received a 79% positive vote with the remaining voters saying they did not know about it. This event, through sponsorships, is a small fund raiser, usually garnering about $1,000 for the Main Street Guymon coffers.

“Outback is one of those events that is in support of our partner, Iron Thunder,” explains Melyn Johnson. “And at the same time, we use it almost as a volunteer appreciate event. It is one that is a lot of fun and Charles White has the planning of it down to a tee. We love Outback.”
Shop Small Breakfast has happened two years and is a retail promotion event where Main Street Guymon and Charles White Insurance have breakfast burritos available the Saturday after Thanksgiving so shoppers can fortify themselves and go out Christmas shopping. The committee is discussing maybe having the breakfast later in the morning, when there are more shoppers going out.

This small event has a 74% positive rating, with 23% saying they didn’t know about it.

Guymon Fiesta had a 68% positive rating with 27% saying they were unaware of the event, and 4% not liking it. This event scores as the number one fund raiser for Main Street Guymon, with the sponsors being many who are not Main Street Guymon members.

“We have found that the Fiesta is great for our diversification,” explains Johnson. “The Fiesta was a long – time City of Guymon event until three years ago, when a City official came to us and said they would not be able to do it anymore and asked if Main Street would like to take it. We love the event, it takes place on Main Street, and Soila Medina who has organized the event for many years was our Board Chairman at the time. It seemed like a perfect fit on our Road Map of Events! It is also the event that brings in the most sponsorship dollars of all.”

Last year, through the help of Hal Clark, Main Street Guymon held a silent auction that brought in about a $1,000. The auction received a 55% positive vote with a 42% not knowing about the auction.

Another new program last year was the Pangaea International Evening that had a similar return on the investment of time. This was an educational cultural event to teach more about our community history and populations. The evenings tickets sold out. Of those who answered the survey, 51% liked the event and 41% didn’t know about it.

The Main Street Guymon Board of Directors feels it is important to continually work to blend and bond our population and this can be helped through education. The better we know one another, the more we can work together towards greater community goals.

One opinion expressed in the survey was to “bring more projects that impact the City of Guymon as a whole and will be in place for generations to come.” They continued, “Work on actual changes to Main Street, historical district instead of concentrating on nothing but events. Events are good, but seeing actual change is what will make this community grow.”

Another opinion written on the comment section wanted more events and they said, “Bring back the Car Show, Sunflower Festival, Christmas Parade, and add maybe a once a month ‘Summertime Saturday night’ street dance featuring local bands. Charge a minimal $5 per person, $10 per couple, armband drinking. Bring fun to downtown. Think about it, sidewalks lined with lawn chairs and people having a great time.”

The Car Show that used to be in Guymon was an event done by the Flatlanders Car Club. The Sunflower Festival was an event done by the Art Gallery. The Christmas Parade was a Chamber event and has been replaced by the Live Local event done by the Bank of the Panhandle and the Christmas Downtown by the Art Gallery. Having a street event like the Summertime Saturday Night sounds fun, but it is nearly impossible to gate (charge admission) on a street event without barricades.

“Bringing fun downtown is something that we love to do more often,” one Main Street Guymon board member said. “If there was a group that wanted to do this, we would really enjoy partnering with them to help make it happen.”

“Asking for opinions is interesting,” says Johnson. “And the ideas can really vary. The two people’s opinions both deserve to be read and to consider, but there isn’t really any way that you can please everyone. It’s impossible.”

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June 11, 2019

This morning at 3:30, I woke up. I had fallen asleep while reading my book, so I picked my book back up and continued reading. Good book. Before long, the book got sad and I there I was crying and pretty soon my nose was running and then I could hardly breath.

Getting up, I hurried to the bathroom to blow my nose and I took a Kleenex back to bed with me and used it on my nose continually. Because the book only got sadder and I kept crying.

The character finally died and I cried more. Then the book was over. It was 6:00 in the morning, straight up. Time to get up and get ready for work.

Now it’s 9 am and pretty soon I’ll be in a meeting. I’m hoping my eyes are not still swollen and red. Go figure, I paid money for that book and spent m. any hours reading it. To make me cry and cry and cry.

We do some of the strangest things.

Maybe I should take the book and present about it at the Texas County Literary Society on June 20 at the Guymon Public Library. The meeting starts at 6 pm and it’s a time for readers to share their favorite book. So. if anyone wants to cry and cry, they can choose to read the book I present. Sounds like great fun, right? Crowds will rush to check out this book, I’m sure.

When you’re at the library, you might also see that the OSU Extension is holding Yoga for Kids, free at from 2-3 pm on June 14, 21, and 27. That sounds like fun. If I tried, it would probably make me cry, too.

There is a Summer movie shown behind the YMCA on June 15 at Sundown. The movie is “Spider Man: Into the Spider-Verse.” Keep an eye out, there may be some other games and maybe a food truck, too.

OPSU Alumni are getting together for a Summer Night Out at the Pub on the Bricks from 6 – 9 pm on June 20. Great time to get together, all alumni, all ages. Come in to 5th and Ellison and come for however long you want to stay. Find out some of the new happenings on campus.

Maybe we’ll be celebrating a three-pete Collegiate National Finals Rodeo Championship!

And golfers, be sure to take part in the Guymon Chamber Golf Tournament on June 22.

Lots of good things going on in Guymon. Be a part. We’d love to see you there.

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June 5, 2019

So often our English language and the way we put words together can be confusing … and, yet, entertaining.

Give a little gander to these commonly used word phrases:

  • Act naturally;
  • Found missing;
  • Resident alien;
  • Advanced BASIC;
  • Genuine imitation;
  • Airline food;
  • Good grief;
  • Same difference;
  • Almost exactly;
  • Government organization;
  • Sanitary landfill;
  • Alone together;
  • Legally drunk;
  • Silent scream;
  • Living dead;
  • Small crowd;
  • Business ethics;
  • Soft rock;
  • Butt head;
  • New classic;
  • Sweet sorrow;
  • Childproof;
  • Synthetic natural gas;
  • Passive aggression;
  • Taped live;
  • Clearly misunderstood;
  • Peace force;
  • Temporary tax increase;
  • Plastic glasses;
  • Terribly pleased;
  • Political science;
  • Tight slacks;
  • Definite maybe;
  • Pretty ugly;
  • Twelve-ounce pound cake;
  • Diet ice cream;
  • Working vacation;
  • Exact estimate; and
  • Microsoft Works

Interesting, aren’t they? Some of those gave me a real chuckle, so I had to share them!

Summer is upon us and I came across this Lemonade recipe that really looks delicious. Another something that I thought needed sharing.

The lady who sent the recipe in, wrote, “My sister and I spent a week every summer with our Aunt Frances, who always had this thirst – quenching lemonade in a stoneware crock in the refrigerator. It makes a refreshing drink on a hot day.”

  • 5 lemons
  • 5 limes
  • 5 oranges
  • 3 qt. water
  • 1.5 cups sugar

Squeeze the juice from 4 of the lemons, limes, and oranges; pour into a gallon container. Thinly slice the remaining fruit and set aside for garnish. Add water and sugar to the juice; mix well. Store in the refrigerator. Serve over ice with fruit slices.

Summer food is fun food. And don’t forget the Guymon Farmer’s Market will be starting up on the first Saturday morning in July and run every Saturday in July, August, and September. Fresh vine ripened veggies will be for sale. There will also be fresh herbs and some fresh baked goods. It’s a great time. The markets open at 8 am and is done when the vendors sell out.

If you would like to sell your garden produce or home – made items, give me a call at 580-338-6246 or come by the office to get your packet with the market rules. We are lucky to have Linda Hill Crop Insurance as a sponsor for the market, paying the permit cost and all!

Hope to see you at Shop and Dine downtown!

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June 3, 2019

Have you ever taken a moment to write down the most important things you would like your children to know? I think it’s important to write them down because then they last longer than we do. True, it’s even more important to live them, but writing them down is important.

When I was asked to do this, it took some serious thinking time. And, honestly, I think that what is important at one time in our lives might not be what we choose a decade or two later. But, it’s all important.

Last October, the words I put down for my children, should they want to ever read them:

“I would like all of my children to understand how beautiful you are. You love easy, you work hard for those you love, you take time to see the beauty in others and around you. You don’t waste much time judging others, but you also have sense to not be blind to users.

“Keep your integrity and good reputation. That will hold you up in tough times. Stay honest. Be honest with yourself, be honest with others. Become a person you can like and don’t worry if others like you. We are on this earth for too short a time to worry about what others think about us.

“Be kind. Kind is never a bad choice.

“When someone doesn’t agree with you, don’t take it personal. They aren’t saying they don’t like you, they just don’t agree with you on an issue. Don’t try to change their mind, but have a quiet discussion. And I have learned that people don’t need to know your opinion most of the time, nor do they probably want it. And if you’re all about giving your opinion to the world, we need to question why. Because we know everything and want the world to follow us? Or that we as a person are defined by our opinion? I hope not.

“I struggle with this and yet, I know, most everyone is smarter than me at something and I know a friendship / relationship should be based on love, kindness, understanding, and acceptance … not on opinions. So, I need to shut up, right?”

Seven effective ways to make others feel important when you’re talking to them, according to author Roy T. Bennett, include: use their name; express sincere gratitude; do more listening than talking; talk more about them than about you; be authentically interested; be sincere in your praise; and show you care.

When I read this, I agreed, but then you have to wonder what do you do when you are talking to someone and you really don’t care? I think that’s when you just be quiet.

Hard for some of to do, this being quiet. But we can teach ourselves to do it.

The summer is getting seriously under way these days. Enjoy your summer and we at Main Street Guymon wish blessings to you all.

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May 30, 2019

My Uncle Clyde’s funeral is Saturday and I’ve been asked to read some memories of his childhood that he wrote in 2006. My dad is also speaking, so we have been reading a little in the family history books. It’s been interesting.

One of the things that Uncle Clyde talked about was his attitude about work. He worked road construction early on and was often first hired and last laid off. He said that “after the major job was done, other guys would sit around, but I would keep busy … even if it was just picking up nails. So, the bosses kept me on longer.”

It made me remember the only big chastising I got from my father. We were laying rock and I was a sophomore in high school. My job was to make the concrete. It’s hard work, shoveling sand and cement into that little mixer, shoving it into buckets and carrying it to Papa. At one point, Papa asked me to do something and I just wilted, saying, “I can’t.” I was so tired.

He stopped working … and he had been working twice as hard as me … and said in a very stern voice, “You are not allowed to say, ‘I can’t.’ You say, ‘I’ll try.’” I had done something unacceptable to my kind and caring father. That day made a real impact on me.

And last week, one of the cousins posted on Facebook about Grandpa Grantham (Papa and Uncle Clyde’s father) and how when he said the prayers before a meal he always started his prayer, “Dear Lord, thank you for our work.”

Generations of my family have been impacted by Grandpa Grantham, a young married man and father during the Great Depression. This morning I received a group text from my eldest son, who is a mechanic for a gas company. The text was accompanied a picture of some big motor.

He wrote, “Man, I love when things go smooth and I can drop in a new piston first shot! It’s a beautiful morning!”

His sister texted back, “… since you’re a hard worker.” She was proud of her brother.

Thank you, Lord, for our work and for family that appreciates the blessings you give us in so many ways.

Now, I really need to get to work and get something accomplished today! Grandpa Grantham and Papa need to be proud, not disappointed in me!

Hope you enjoy your work today.

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May 23, 2019

One of my daughters gave me a book entitled “Between Me and You, Mom” and it has a bunch of open – ended questions to answer. The questions are ones that bring out things your kids might be interested in known about you or about what you think. Some of the questions were pretty thought provoking and took some time to answer.

As I went back and read what was asked and my answers, I thought that these would be good things to bring up in conversation between parents and kids. So often we think we know so much about someone, but the truth is that there is so much more to everyone.

So, one of the interesting questions was, “What interests and characteristics have you seen in me (your children) that you also had once upon a time?”

Every one of our kids has some of the same qualities as we, their parents. And when we find commonalities, then it’s it seems to be an easier relationship.

That question was followed by, “What characteristics do you think you and I share now?”

We can even bring in the grandparents as part of the conversation, if we want.

The next question was, “How do you think we are different?”

When I answered this one, I had to admit that my eldest son, Justin, has more patience than me and I always wish I was better at that. Missy is so happy to be at home; she loves being home and I wish I didn’t have such a wandering soul sometimes. I love how stable she is for her family. Lucas is such a researcher. I admire that in him because he goes to gain knowledge whereas I pretty much prefer to just be entertained. Lisa is very compassionate, and she has a willingness to DO something with her compassion. She acts out her compassion, helping people by cooking or babysitting or painting or visiting. That takes guts and energy.

Those are things that I should tell my children that I admire those qualities. We forget to tell our kids, too often, what we love about them. I’m pretty good at telling them what I think they’ve done poorly, and I should be just as diligent in telling them their good points.

And then there is the big question … “What do you think is my best quality?” Boy, this is one we need to tell our kids. They may not even realize we have noticed.

My eldest, Justin, is very accepting of people and their differences. He’s also opinionated, and I pray he doesn’t become so much more that he loses this acceptance. He has been a friend of the whole world for most of his life.

I respect Missy’s love of teaching. She loves helping people learn and bettering themselves. She nurtures all who let her and when we don’t, it can hurt her feelings. She was born to help people along their way.

Lucas’ best quality, in my opinion, is his intensity. I can also be his most irritating at times. To be around someone who lives life with such intensity and passion reminds me to never forget to live.

Lisa’s best quality is her earnest and fair honesty. She loves life and all that goes with it. It is heavenly to be part of her reality.

To be fair, I have three in – laws that deserve to know the same things. I am going to work on doing that because I have been very blessed with the folks my children have chosen to marry.

Then to book poses the question, “What do you think is my not – so – best quality?” I’m not going to share all my answers there, but I do have to repeat what I wrote about Lisa. “Lisa being the matchmaker for every stray dog is an emotional roller coaster for her.” So, it’s not my favorite quality because it is so hard on her. I do think it’s a good thing for someone to do, though.

And lastly, “So far, have I turned out pretty much the way you expected I would? Any surprises?”

So, maybe this little books questions have raised some topics you could visit with your kids about … they could be interesting!

The recent graduation cards could hold a few of these types of comments in them. Hope you’re all enjoying the graduations with your family and friends.

Support Group for Diabetics is at the Heritage Community Assisted Living facility at 5:30 pm on May 27.

Family Game Night at the Guymon Public Library is May 28 from 5 to 7 pm.

I read in the newspaper that the Carson and Barnes Circus will be at the fairgrounds on May 30 with shows at 4:30 and 7:30 pm.

Friends of the Library Afternoon Friendship Tea with Author Jodi Thomas is June 1 at 3 pm in the library.

Some fun things coming up to do in Guymon!

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May 13, 2019

April 2019 has gone and the official Community Clean – Up month is over. The community worked hard to spiff up a little and get ready for company coming to town. The number of hours reported back to Main Street Guymon on clean – up hours is 825.5.

“This is the number of hours turned in to us,” says Main Street Director Melyn Johnson. “I am sure it does not include everyone’s extra efforts to pick up trash, mow, plant flowers, paint, and whatever else they’ve done. So, this is a great turn out.”

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Evlyn Schmidt, a retired OPSU librarian, worked on four different crews during the Community Clean – Up in Guymon. She was probably part of the reason each of those groups joined in the trash pick up during the month of April. The Main Street Guymon Board of Directors appreciate the volunteers who make the programs, such as the Community Clean – Up, possible. Were it not for our volunteers, we would only be an idea. View all photos on Facebook.

Many businesses got into the groove and joined, including

  • Bank of the Panhandle,
  • Memorial Hospital,
  • PCHC,
  • PTCI,
  • Top Hand Western Store, and
  • Verizon.

Others have said that they’re still planning to step up in May!

School groups really stepped up. They include, from OPSU, the

  • Science Club,
  • football players,
  • HALO (Hispanic American Leadership Organization),
  • PBL (business club), and
  • OPSU Upward Bound.

Guymon school groups included the

  • Alma Folklorica Dancers,
  • GHS BPA (business club), and
  • junior high students.

Several church groups pitched in, too.

  • The Connections Church,
  • First Christian Church,
  • Nazarene Church youth,
  • Primera Iglesia Bautista Hispanic church,
  • Seventh Day Adventist Pathfinders, and
  • Victory Center youth all helped.

The largest group of helpers involved the local organizations such as

  • Boy Scouts,
  • Girl Scouts,
  • Glasswing Garden Club,
  • Guymon 4-H,
  • Junior 4-H,
  • Lions Club,
  • Recycle Guymon,
  • Rose Garden Club,
  • Texas County Democrats, and
  • YMCA.

Some local individuals worked and cleaned up on public lands, too. Those that send in their time included Linda Burke, Vonda Wilkins, Jim Norris and crew, Bob and Paula Lucas, and Jill and Mac Johnson.

Several people need to be recognized for their efforts, although everyone who participated (whether turning in hours or not) should be commended. Evlyn Schmidt, a retired librarian, helped three different groups pick up trash and was given the Main Street Guymon Vital Volunteer for her work. Teri Mora brought in three different groups from OPSU and the high school that put in a huge number of accumulated hours. She is also one of the many who has been a part of this program for almost ten years. Bob Lucas is over 85 years old and picked up trash along Highway 136 South.

“The people inspired me,” says Johnson. “They just do what needs to be done and it’s not for the pats on the back or for any other reason that it’s the right thing to do. They are what make this a great place to be.”

The volunteers picked up trash or did other clean-up along all the highway entrances coming into Guymon, along Main Street / Highway 64, at the county fairgrounds, at all the community parks, along the railroad easement in town, at the airport, along East Street, down some of the alleys, on the school campus, around the hospital, at the nursing home, Kid’s Inc. ball fields, at the rodeo grounds, at the post office, at the Y, and other areas.

“Thank you to all who helped,” said Johnson. “And thanks to those who are still working on some of the clean – up projects in May. You’re all community heroes!”

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On The Bricks

May 11, 2019

Reading is a joy to me. Having a good book in hand can make any day bearable. Books are an adventure to be taken, facts to learn, and experience to aspire to.

Books are my friends.

Friends that don’t talk bad about you. Friends that don’t expect you to do things that are difficult for you. Friends that don’t require your undivided attention. Friends that don’t talk down to you.

Books are safe.

My mama read to me when I was young. The kid’s dad and I read to them when they were young. In fact, their dad would be so animated reading to them, everyone sitting on the little twin bed, that it is a favorite memory of those days. You can hand down the love of books.

We read to all four of the kids, but not all read books the way Lucas does. Yet they know of books and have seen the joy they can bring.

There are many things that we hand down to our kids and grandkids. Not just the DNA things like eye color, big hands, curly hair, but how we react and act to certain instances.

Our children can learn to take responsibility for their own actions from us.

Our children can learn how to treat others from us.

Our children can learn how to show respect from us.

Our children can learn a good work ethic from us.

Our children can learn how to eat without making noise or being gross from us.

Our children can learn how to be clean from us.

Or they can learn other things.

No matter how many kids we have, each will take the same lessons and turn them into their own person. But we are an important part of the root of these choices. And yet their choice is what they follow is their call, their responsibility.

And my mistakes are not the fault of my parents.

It’s a harsh day when we realize this, but it’s the day that begin to grow into the individual humans we are. It is also when we start to realize that our parents did the best they could at the time. And when we are the parent, we also won’t be perfect. I shudder, remembering some of the mistakes I made as a mom. But we do the best we can at the time.

Mother’s Day just passed. I hope you could focus on the good things about your mother and grandmother and about the good things that they gave their children. I hope you were able to let the regrets rest that day.

And for those who had children, I hope you had a blessed Mother’s Day.

For those who love someone as a mother, I hope you had a blessed Mother’s Day.

For those who have stepchildren, I hope you had a blessed Mother’s Day.

For those who have a pet that is their child, I hope you had a blessed Mother’s Day.

For all the Godmother’s, I hope you had a blessed Mother’s Day.

And for all those who have buried a child or not carried a child full term, my prayers were with you on Mother’s Day.

See you on the bricks.